Ha! I kinda feel that way too. Her behavior is really trashcan behavior. Thanks for stopping through!

Team relish in deviled eggs. I mean let’s consult the food network for verification!

What conclusions did you and your friend come to?

Thanks for coming through! Yeah, it’s hard because my mom is HIGH FEMME so I understand that desire to try and be in between what your mom is or wanted and who you were becoming. I’m sorry to hear that your foster kid has to deal with that type of narrowness in his life.

But you are giving him an opportunity to see…

Thanks for stopping through! I never heard of either of those places so thanks for the heads up!

Yes, depending on who you are and your body type and a bunch of other factors can make shopping a beast. Add wanting to wear men’s clothing and being distinctly aware that most men’s retailers ain’t having that and it can add up to a very uncomfortable place to be. ‘Preciate you coming through again!

Sis, I feel you! Do you have a Destination XL near you? They keep me laced, their staff is really cool, and they have some great deals on their sales racks. But you’re right most places are pricey. Even the other online retailers I mentioned above are really expensive. If you find some good places please post them…

Ha! I had to go back and read the last line. Thank you for stopping through! Come back again!

Thanks for putting your personal truth out here. Gender presentation is tricky, especially for women who are not trying to fuck with gender but are just simply living their lives. Working through what makes us uniquely us is always a challenge. As a fat MoC woman I am constantly picking apart my body when I size…

Thank you! The best thing your kiddo can have is someone in their corner who is willing to let them figure out their style without pressures about gender identity and presentation! I hope they enjoy the piece and know that they are not alone!

Thanks, bruh. A lot of straight dudes ain’t willing to hear my story or the life lessons of other MoC women so I appreciate you coming through and being open-minded.

Thanks for stopping by! Yeah, it was definitely hard and sometimes I still have a little Butch Envy, I don’t think it ever really goes away. But being confident in how I move in the world makes it easier.

Thanks for stopping by! Yes, clothes can be a headache. Finding the right spot with people who are cool AND that has great clothes is a real challenge. Plus the other part is wanting the clothes to be affordable and well made. If you have some favorite spots, post ‘em!

Thanks for checking it out!

Thanks for reading!

Thanks for your response!

Yes, Shane was not butch/stud to me in any way so they can keep that.

And often butch/stud identities in tv shows especially centered around prisons is to serve as a “warning” to femme’s.

Yeah, a lot of times not only are we an afterthought but often left off the table altogether because the…