I’m going to take a deep breath and say this:

Goddammit Charlamagne...

Sorry, meant illegal, not legal.

Yes, thank you for catching that. I certainly meant illegal.

Unfortunately this is true; naysayers come in different forms, even on the course. We’ll keep her encouraged.

I’m sorry to hear about both of those experiences. I think a lot of people truly need to educate themselves when it comes to BDSM, especially KNIFE PLAY. So many things can go wrong exceptionally quick. Thank you for your contribution.

I couldn’t help but chuckle and agree reading this. Every person can stop; if he or she decides to proceed, it’s not only disrespectful but violating personal consent.

Do gooders? There’s ways that you approach certain forms of BDSM. What’s looked at as taboo in traditional sex is not necessarily the case in BDSM. I don’t see how us alleged “do gooders” are going overboard. We’re not going to play a game on semantics.

Whew...this one may be a grey area as well; without permission, this is completely legal. Exploring the possibility that this person agrees to these terms, I question how healthy the relationship may be over time. In my opinion, it really goes back to trust. I’m not naive that there’s people who will manipulate…

Cannot agree more.

That’s one hell of a compliment and I’ll try to keep up to this same standard.

I cannot speak for these “MRA neckbeards” but I can say that one doesn’t make the other invalid. People, in general -regardless of your sexual orientation, gender, being non-binary and all in between- can be victims of sexual assault. One shouldn’t downplay the other and until both sides start listening to each other,…

Sounds dope! I hope this works out for me...fingers crossed!

HA! Thank you dear. Although I have been trying to accomplish getting this color back for a LONG time, I used Clairol Textures and Tones in 8RO (Flaming Desire). Locs take a long time to absorb color and you have to thoroughly wash out the color. I probably used 3 boxes of color in my hair—YIKES!

My original hair color…

Thanks so much dear.

From personal experience, I like using my dry-shampoo and oiling the scalp when needed. Avoid grease if you can because it tends to clog up and cause excessive buildup. Lightly oiling your scalp every 2 - 3 days should be proficient. If this doesn’t help, follow up with a dermatologist. Conditions…

Such a powerful article.

It’s mind-boggling to me that a pile of feces like yourself decided come onto a site geared towards people of color just to heckle a post. This will my last response to you. Please take your ridiculous comments and antics to people who actually care. It’s pathetic and juvenile to try to solicit rage on a platform when…

I suppose we can find a horse sweater for you because this comment makes you look like a jack ass. Thanks for your contribution.

Wow...how deplorable. You’re absolutely correct; it’s not just an African American issue. This entire world need to do better. I’m depressed hearing this but not surprised. The way that this world treat people of color is absolutely disgusting.

Incredible! After a few classes, I think you’ll love it.