The F in Forestville is for Fights. 😂 I wouldn't be surprised if you missed multiple fights that day. 

Fun fact, the form for spousal support has pre-set budget line items, so if she is trying to get a specific amount, she and her lawyers are forced to put outrageous amounts in the line items provided.

I remember two things about this video:

That song is my jam! 

I believe everyone deserves an expensive habit that they can afford.

“If this was anyone other than Ayesha, I don’t think there would be this much vitriol.”

I feel like "sis" should be reserved for people whose humanity you acknowledge.

This suggests that there were several horses to select.

It is easy not to care about people you don’t know.

Best version of this song. Get your life:

“I don’t actually think that a black female creative with a nonblack partner would even consider dampening her message for the sake of her partner’s feelings. Maybe it’s because most of the black women I know seem so steadfast in their resolve and dedication to blackness that a partner more or less has to fit into…

That Louis Vuitton tote saved you. People who prefer vanilla frostys can’t be trusted.

thank you for sharing these! These stories need to be told.

This “choice” sentiment reminds me of that offensive “I’m not my grandparents, you can catch these hands” t-shirt. Shut. UP.

Hearing from some Kanye enthusiasts, “Oh Kanye is just being Kanye. Don’t take him seriously; just listen to the music.”

Every time I hear his voice, whether in an interview or on a record, it just sounds like a pedophile trying to seduce a young black girl. It literally makes me nauseous. At our wedding, I specifically told our DJ that if he played anything with R. Kelly in it, I’d shut everything down.

You played in five games??? That’s impressive at our age.

I’m so sorry that you had such a mixed bag of experience! That anger is certainly warranted! I am glad that you are able to remember the good folks too. I continue to invest in the school in the hopes that wonderful people will continue to meet there but some of the other nonsense you encountered will go away.

I do anything and everything to avoid overflow. I’m with your fiancee. It feels like I’m in that bummy section of the Titanic.

“But if things go bad at Harvard, they’ll be all right. Nobody is going to determine that Harvard isn’t worth attending. Many in our own community already question the utility of HBCUs, so drama adds fuel to the “Shut them down” fire. Nonblack people also struggle with understanding, ignorantly, why HBCUs even still…