When he went on that bender at the Bunny Ranch and ended up in that coma...didn’t the sex workers say he’d paid for the wife experience? I dunno what’s on the Bunny Ranch menu and I dunno if he ordered a la carte but apparently, he just spent his time doing blow and cuddling. He just wanted companionship. Was…

The most chilling is Allan Savory. He’s a white, male biologist/ecologist and he told the various African governments that the solution to their desertification problem was due to over-grazing. So, they went ahead and killed 40,000, yes FORTY THOUSAND, elephants. They deferred to his “expertise” and his promises that…

WHAT?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? How is she not under the jail? How did she get to just come back here? How is her “medical facility” still operating. This chick only has a HIGH SCHOOL DIPLOMA. That’s less than nothing when it comes to administering to sick patients. 

I applaud every chick that’s truly about that natural life but homegirl is wearing a lace front...so my question is...is it occhie wally or is it one mic....

It takes a Herculean effort. It does. And if you can’t do it. Never did it. Didn’t even try. Then you’re not fit to be a community leader far less someone we should support for president. I don’t blame anyone for keeping their head down and not making waves but that type of black person shouldn’t run for office. They…

You said:

Hurrah!

To your first point. I raised that several times in my piece. It was the whole point of my piece...her fear of his reaction. She was calling him a feminist ally but he doesn’t seem like much of an ally. It’s not normal that you’re afraid to talk to your husband about household duties. Gemma is tying herself up in…

Hiya, she shouldn’t have to say certain things but she does because she’s with who she’s with...the solution isn’t silent fuming. Imagine if you’re together for decades...just decades of sublimating your wants.

It’s really not normal that you’re afraid to talk to your husband. And I keep saying “not normal” but I actually lowkey think there’s a lot of dysfunction in that house. A level of dysfunction that if we were privy to it we’d all be appalled. I kept thinking of Nicole Kidman’s role in Big Little Lies. (But obviously…

Kate I couldn’t make sense of it. She went really hard to point out how “good” he was but at the same time she gave herself away when she said “he doesn’t respond to criticism well” and “he responds to criticism in a very patriarchal way”. Does her “good” husband have a short temper? Like it seems from the way she…

Men like this exist.

You’re right. He failed. He fucked up. (Listen this couldn’t be my husband but whatever). But I still think it was a miscommunication. When he came to her and said “this cleaning service is still expensive, do you still want me to book it?” Remember, he had to go to her because she’s in charge of the budget. Do you…

Rach!

This.

I believe she has tried and been shut down...that’s what I got from her “he responds to criticism in a very patriarchal way”. I didn’t quite say it but like...you’re afraid to say “help me” to your husband because he isn’t this “feminist ally” you say he is...you’re “it’s cool” girling it in your relationship because…

I hate confrontation too, just in a different way than Gemma, because I tend to go overboard and I say things I can’t take back. And I’ve burned a lot of bridges this way (so like being a bull isn’t all it’s cracked up to be). So in sticky interpersonal relations where I want to be heard but I’m so boiling mad I’m…

If you made yourself clear and you tried. What else could you do? You did everything you could do. Gemma’s afraid but to say “you’re right to be afraid” and then to just stay and remain unhappy because well no good would come of speaking up anyway...I can’t co-sign that. What if...he’s not the man for her?

Hahahahahahahaha

This!